How To Play The Wedding Shoe Game

The wedding shoe game is a fun and simple reception activity where the couple sits back-to-back, swaps one shoe, and answers questions by raising the shoe that represents their answer. It’s typically hosted by an MC and fits perfectly into the reception timeline as light entertainment before the dance party. Preparing good questions and having an engaging host ensures it’s fun, interactive, and memorable for guests.

What are the rules of the wedding shoe game?

The rules for the wedding shoe game are really very simple. If you're familiar with the Newlywed Game, then you already understand the concept. The best time to play is during your reception dinner or once the reception has started.

You begin by placing two chairs with their backs to each other on stage or in the middle of the dance floor. The bride and groom will then each sit in one of the chairs, so that their backs are to each other. Then have them take off their shoes and each exchange one.

You then have someone ask the couple questions about their relationship. For example, "Which of you is the most romantic?" The bride and groom will then hold up one shoe to represent their answer. Your guests should help out by cheering every time their answers match.

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Who should act as MC?

Picking one or two enthusiastic hosts for this activity is key. Preferably your MC will feel comfortable standing up in front of a crowd without getting nervous. Some couples will turn this duty over to either the best man or maid of honor. At DJ Cutt Entertainment, our wedding DJs all have a lot of experience with the wedding shoe game and make excellent hosts leading this and other activities during the reception. See how we MC all our events.

The shoe game fits naturally into the flow of your wedding timeline. It typically runs about 10 minutes, making it a perfect filler while the catering staff prepares for the dance party or the cake is being cut.

What questions should you ask?

It’s a good idea to come up with a prearranged list of questions. This can help to avoid any embarrassing or inappropriate questions from being asked. Here is a list of some suggested questions we recommend:

• Who has the better sense of humor?
• Who is more intelligent?
• Who is the better cook?
• Who made the first move?
• Who is the biggest nerd?
• Who will want to have kids first?
• Who’s more of a morning person?
• Who’s more stubborn?
• Who said, “I love you” first?
• Who is more likely to have a hangover tomorrow?
• Who spends more time on their phone?

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And of course, your last question is the only one you want to have different answers for: Who do you love most in the world?Once the shoe game wraps up and the dance party begins, you'll want a great dance music playlist ready to go. Consider exploring our first dance songs suggestions to kick off the evening in style.
For the most memorable reception moments, pair the shoe game with our cold spark machines for a dramatic finale, or add our photo booth so guests can capture the fun all night long.

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Want a Reception Your Guests Will Never Forget?

At DJ Cutt Entertainment, we can help organize and MC the wedding shoe game and all of your reception festivities. Contact us today to learn more.